For many of us, the multi-tasking-outcomes-focused-rush of the day-to-day prevents us from even noticing what is going on around us. We are far too busy to have time to care about the experiences of our fellow humans, other species, or the planet.
Reflection allows us to look back on our experiences and make sense of our actions. But the breakneck pace at which we live means there often isn’t time. Instead, we move blindly from one experience to the next, with the capacity to be neither discerning nor critical. If we do not reflect, we cannot effectively plan so we often find ourselves at the whim of other people’s schedules. Our relationships can lack depth and stagnate because we do not make sense of interactions in between times.